“Don’t complain about others. Change yourself if you want peace.
It is better to protect your feet with slippers than to carpet the earth!”
“Always bear in mind, that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.”
– Abraham Lincoln
(At least in India) A daughter-in-law is expected to behave like a “daughter”…wouldn’t that automatically happen when a mother-in-law behaves like a “mother”? With your mother, you don’t have to “behave” like a daughter..you are one to her.